This week’s nugget is a gentle reminder straight from the depths of my heart.
A legendary marriage isn’t born from just feelings.
It’s built on decisions.
Just because we’re in a relationship doesn’t mean we’re building one. In other words, being together isn’t the same as growing together.
Love doesn’t thrive on autopilot, it needs direction, intention, and daily choice.
It needs the kind of commitment that quietly says:
“I still choose you”.
- Not because it’s always easy.
- Not because everything is perfect.
- But because commitment isn’t the effect of love—it’s the cause of it.
A thriving, lasting marriage doesn’t magically appear, it’s shaped moment by moment, in the way we listen, show up, repair, and reconnect.
And this is what I believe to be true: A legendary relationship is absolutely possible for us.
But only if we stop waiting to feel it…
And start choosing to create it.
If you’re already in, Get all the way in.
We didn’t come this far to settle for “fine”.
We here to build something extraordinary.
And it starts with a choice. Today. Because we deserve it.
